Monday, July 2, 2012

The love I found in you


Who would have thought we'd feel this way, finding a million things to say, knowing our dream is coming true...so girl, come here and lay down by my side, give me the love that's in your eyes, It'll be good just holding on tight and share in the night, so stay....

Twenty seven years ago, I broke up with her. It was done in pretty bad taste, with no thought on how she would feel...considering that she was running a fever when I broke the news. Little did I know that she actually longed for me until the day we would finally meet again...

I have been in and out of relationships, treated badly, been there done that--I have given up on finding "my prince charming come true to life."  Friends would sometimes ask, what if the next person who comes along happens to be the right one? And I'd tell them, "What a loser, 'cos at this point in my life, I am not willing to invest ANYTHING on ANYONE ANYMORE."  That person will have to do everything and be like my beck and call person. Ruthless, that was how I thought of myself then.

Life has its ways...it's strange and sometimes surreal-- how it manages to bring people from opposite sides of the world to meet once again and just pick up from where they left off the last time...

I was transported back into 7th grade, when she and I were still together...it was like being sucked into a portal but with so much eagerness to be pulled right into that vortex-like thing....flashbacks of her dancing to Head Over Heels by the Go-go's, the letter with the lyrics to Ocean Deep by Cliff Richards and Stuck on You by Lionel Richie. I know, they all seem mushy and so outdated but they hold so dear to my heart. Our endless phone calls at night, we could hardly remember the stuff we talked about...but we did talk for hours on end...
Going home from school, I always dreamt of literally flying to her house...for I knew this street in Multinational Village that led straight to Moonwalk...I never forgot the sound of her voice or how she'd move her head to the beat of the music...and how she'd smile while trying to hide it...small, quirky things that I never really forgot--it probably settled somewhere deep inside of me...

Which reminds me of a song from The Sound of Music, "Something Good"....
Perhaps I had a wicked childhood, perhaps I had a miserable youth. But somewhere in my wicked, miserable past, there must have been a moment of truth. For here you are, standing there, loving me, whether or not you should. So somewhere in my youth or childhood, I must have done something good.

I am just so thankful that she's back in my life and we're together again. I have never known a person to be so full of love and kindness and all the good stuff there is. I know no one's perfect, but with all that she has been through and all that she is, she's close to perfection and she's for real. And that's all that matters. 



Monday, May 14, 2012

In a world of two-sided creeps

Each betrayal begins with trust....so says Phish.

I've had my share of people who did and still does that.  In my lifetime, I can safely say that I've come across and even associated with more than twenty people--more than twenty two-sided, ugly creeps.

In my workplace alone, they thrive every single day, nurturing their "gift," the ability to be nice and all smiles when in front of someone AND really mean and hateful when that someone's back is turned.




Saying goodbye is never an easy thing....but you never said that you'd stay forever...


I hate goodbyes...who likes them anyway?  Probably the foolhardy...but that's not me.  As I write this blog, Karen's voice drones on about being "Solitary".....pathetic huh?  That's me. 

I'm caught between goodbye and I love you is now on...yep, I'm listening to The Carpenters play list on my phone.  And this song just happens to be so apt to the predicament I am in.   :(
You'd think (I did) that after four long years of being celibate and after years of always being kept in the closet  and tormented at the same time, I'd have picked up a few good pointers at being straight and strong-willed, but NOOO....just like the expression on my face in the photo as I strolled along Main street U.S.A. --wary and lost--that's how I still am.

I better get back to generating these reports for work or else I'm a goner.

Friday, November 19, 2010

Shabbath Shalom

Today is Sabbath, the Lord's Day that He specifically asked of us to remember and keep holy.

People, even born-again Christians do not honor this day as it should be.  Most of them simply overlook this Commandment and reason out that tradition has dictated what day we should honor God.  Their schedule and activities could not be bothered by a Commandment specifically given to us by God.  Their convenience is their priority.

The Fourth Commandment is about sanctification and relationship - Exodus 20:8-11.
God instructs His people to "remember" the Sabbath and keep it set apart for holy purposes to draw nearer to Him. God initiated the Sabbath rest at Creation, blessing and sanctifying the seventh day (Genesis 2:1-3). It's clear He expected continued observance.

Friday, March 26, 2010

sniffles

i just haven't been feeling well...i skipped gym this whole week BUT i made sure i did my 5-factor fitness every single day at home.
today, jackie lou blanco was at the bsp to give a health and fitness talk!  my friends and i made sure we went and saw her and it was sooo worth it!  she's so pretty and sexy and she really carries herself so well, just like on tv!  :-)  It was just fun hearing her share her stories about family, life, and just about everything else.
i will definitely try wheatgrass AND will try to check her espadrilles shop at The Podium (have been meaning to for the longest time now.)

Off to watching Desperate Housewives (re-run marathon)....  

Thursday, November 26, 2009

oops i did it again

Stupid me struck again!  Why can't I just be content and not screw and mess things up?????  Things are going just fine....and I have to act all mushy and cheesy and shitty and now this is what I get!!!!!  If I manage to pull out of this mess, I will make sure to keep my big fat mouth shut!!!!! 

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Tell us what fills your heart with gratitude

Dear papemelroti!

My heart is filled with gratitude when I see simple acts of kindness.
When a young man gives his seat in a bus to an elderly or a pregnant lady.
When I see someone share their food and clothes to the less fortunate.
The sight of a newborn baby cuddling up to her mother, feeling so secure in the arms of her parent.
And even just seeing a rainbow after the rain fills my heart with so much happiness.

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